Step 1: Determine the Cause
You can’t go back in time and change history but you can learn from it. You need to identify the exact causes of the downward slide in your relationship. Once you have identified mistakes that were made you can try to learn and grow from the experiences.
The strain on your marriage may be due to a single event or it may have occurred from behaviors that your wife just can’t deal with anymore.
Whatever the reason, you need to get the specifics figured out so that you can deal with the situation and prevent it from happening again.
So put some thinking time into when things started to go wrong, it’s the first step to putting things right.
